Even friends who are pure in human relationships are so twisted that they say "it's not fun to please." It's twisted without a human element. It's too much, so if you reveal yourself, your opponent will leave, and if you want to keep it, you'll have to wear a mask and be patient. The way I work is "money." Marriage is a loss because it's a gain not to not do it. You're just a poor person with no "now" ability to love, and you don't have to admit it, and you don't want to take care of it. Open your heart, heal your wounds first, restore your humanity...When you can really love someone, you have to marry him because you love him. Do you get caught trying to marry him with that twisted selfishness?